pPERSECUTORY ALTERS A.'\O EGO STATF.S: PROTECTORS, FRIEXOS. A.'\0 ALLIF.S Lisa Goodman. C.S.w. Jay Pele~ C.S.\\'. Ijsa Goodman, C.S.W.• is DircclorandJa), J~ctcrs.C.S.W. o is aSta£fPsrcllotherapi~ at Vieu m Se....ices· Crime Victims Center, in Bronx. Nt:w York. For reprints wrile Lisa Goodman, C.S. W., Victim Sen;ces. 2530 Grdlld Concourse. ith Floor, Bronx. NY 10458. ABSTRACf Pmm/torallm i Iltlis.wrifltillf" id,ulily Ilisonln-(Irt! II IliJonnl)' desailw/ in bthavioml tnms as b'.llign-nlt. abusilot'. and viohnt. IVhik most authors agrn thai jJn's«lItors bq;i" lI.J htdpers lhoe is no COl/setlSUS about th";,. filler droe/QjJln,.", or flUldion witl.;n th,. S)'stnn. Tlljs paP" PrtSi:lIU {/ thl'Orttiaz/ mod,./ of th,. diolOf!J' and dnxlopllle1/( oJ/J"MCldor llitm. It tlucit/flUs lIu: IIl1lt~lJ;lIg {j/ul continuously prot«tj1Jf! Iwlurt oj tlu' (1111'T which btCOflll!S nlftskl!fJ by the flIJ/Hlr- nlll)' M~C11loryM bt-hllvior. Using clinical examples which built! 011 IIwir aI/predation oj tlte positiw JI/flction oj IJf'I"Sf'ilJtor altn"s the (Iullwr!i Im!.rentlllPir trmlmrnttedlllique.f, w!lirh illrhu!P: fIlKag""umt, building rapport wilh Ihe II mlerl)'ing protecliveJUllctio/l, pS)'dwedllCalioll oJthealler, and finally, filillil)' Ihp'mll)' 5/)'11' 1/1'/,'VlifllitJTIs oj roko.f, f').1)f'clfllioll.~, anti "oli/lfl(Jrie.~. nit! paper colldud(!5 wilh (1/1 examillation oJ Ihe COIIlIll'r- Imll·Yl'fI:llce i.\·JlleI wltirll rO/lllllOllly flriSI' ifl worRillg with /JerwfII- lor a/tn"S (llld IhPi,. iml)(/rl (JIl Ihl' rlinirial1 alld Ihe therapeulic Imh. INTRODUCTION ~ She should die, she de~l'Il~stodie. She 'sa loser aud has beell all her life ami that's wh), J tried to kill her. W (Christille, speaking" of the hose) Therapists workillg with dlhn dissociative idelltil)' dis- order (nil) (Americall Ps)'chiatricAssociation. 1994) or ego SI. alters and ego ~tale~ arc gellerdlly seen as having certain roles. func- tions, or purposes \\ithin the system (Bloch. 1991). Whilc we ha\c noted somc mention in thc litcralllrc of initial or childhood fUllctioll, Putnam and Ross ar'C alonc in their dis- cussion of pcrsecUlor's later roles. Putnam ( 1989) st~lIes that persecutors Mcontain the encr- gy alld an"ccu LllaL tile depressed alld apathetic host cannot sustain M(p. 208). I-Ie also states that throLlg-b their lhreal- euing behavior persecutors preserve the st.:Cl'eL~ of the past allll'l:. In additioll to protecting the facl.~ of the abusc the pcr~c'clltorMscrves to keep noxious reminders of the expe- rience at a distance M(p. 208) from both ther.lpist and host. It accomplishes both goals by Mere:!ting such an uproar in therdpy thatthc therapist never has a chance to focus on the past W (p. 208). It should be noted that this isag'din ,I bch:wioral descrip- tion in which the m'erarching fUllction of. or reason focthe beh:nior is hinled at but newrstah.-d, III an earlY\\'ork Helen Watkills. while not outright sa)'ingwhat we thin k is the impor- lalit discovery she has made. alludes to her increasing under- swndinK that a persecutor is -blindl}' protecting [the client) according to its dew of ilSClf and its ol"iginally created pur- pose forexisting fl (\\'alkins. 1978. pp. 368-369). Ross isalolle in formulating the concept that -the hostile behavior isactu- all"prOlecth'e w(1989. p. 259) or more generally Ihatthe per- scclilOr whas a good reason for what she is doing and that h-.:r hcha\'ior makes scnse from her point ofvicw fl (p, 258), III thelollowillgscClionsweshal1 follow Ross's lead and attempt to look al persecutor or malc\'olcllt ahers not so much in t-':r"lIIS of what they do. but wh)' they act as the)' do, the MpOS- itj\,c illlenlioll'" We shall attempt to distinguish between meansalldellrl. behaviorand int.ent. \\'eshall begin by propos- illg a theory of persecutor's etiology and de\·elopmenl. ETIOLOGY AND DEVELOPMENT OF PERSECUTOR ALTERS Pro/edor Initially Formed in Otildhood \\'e agree clllirelywith the obsel1;ation that persecutors I.:'oh·e Out ofhclpcror protector personalities who firsl come into cxistcncc ill lhe hosl's childhood or C;lrl)' adolescence, We diS:lgree. howe\·('r. with the implication in the literature that the l>ersccUlOrs undergo a tnUlsfornmtioll of identity to Mbecome fl a male\'olelll entity. This as.'Iulllcd malleability of t"S.'>Cllce is taken further in the literatul'c whell authors Lalk ahout therapy with persecutors and llote that the persecu- tor Gill be MtLll"llcd into [a] COllstructive force fl (\Vatkins. 1~78. p. .'-\97) and become Mone of the therapist's strongest Patient: Patielll: Patient: Iwould dO,HI)'thillgirltheworld to destroy anything she did ;llld hurt her an)' way I could, I used to be one of those inside who would Ix:littlc Ilcr :\Ild GlUed her names and swear at her. luscd 10 Cllt the shit out of her - and I'm vel)' good at it. I'm the one who .severed the artl.:l}' and four tell- dons, W I wanted to kill her. I stopped growing at 14 becausc thai W:IS when she begml becoming interested in bors. and dates, and all thai [she u'lilsolT]. and I hatcd itand I didn't want allY part ori!. So I qLlit. I I\'asn'! y;oing to ________----'_L- _ 93 IPERSECUTORS AS PROTECTORS be any more than 14 'cause nobody was ever gonna touch me " [she u-ails off again]. And whenever that would happen with Gretchen [the host] it would hurtme and 1 would hate it and I'd hate her, and I'd hate her for letting that happen ... so I'd cut her. The Change to Harassment: Changes in Host's Behavior With the increased agency of adolescence and adult- hood the host now starts to engage in behavior which the protector assesses to be dangerous. To protect the host he or she must be conu·olled. The means of that control are the same aggressive thoughts, feelings, or acts which may have previously been directed toward others (in the pro- tective role) but which are now experienced as "persecuto- ry" as theyare directed at the host. TalUrally, given the under- lying protective role of the persecutor, this ego state may also feel genuine and intense hostility toward the host for putting the system in danger, "for letting that happen." The following discussion of specific host behaviors which elicit this change in the protector's focus of control is not intended to be exhaustive but rather suggestive of the possible range. Risk-taking behavior is an obvious uigger of the protector's efforts to con trol the host. 'Traumatized peo- ple relive the moment of trauma not only in their thoughts and dreams but also in their actions. In their attempts to undo the traumatic moment, survivors may even put them- selves at risk of further harm" (Herman, 1992, p. 39). Now, in adolescence and early adulthood, the host has much more opportunity than in childhood to put herself at risk. He or she has increased mobility, more unsupervised time, and vastly expanded exposure to potential victimizers. The host increases her exposure to potential abusers and revictimization not only through her increased expo- sure to other people but also through what Kluft has termed the "sitting duck syndrome" which leads to frequent involve- ment in exploitative and abusive relationships (Kluft, ] 990). In a context of such ongoing victimization it is only natural that there will be an increasing load of hostility within the system. Even non-abusive relationships may provoke the pro- tector's vitriolic reaction if the relationship takes on a mean- ing which feels threatening. Simply feeling the possibility of closeness to another person may be u1e trigger because of the protector's prior learning that trust and dependency lead surely and inevitably to abuse and hurl. The history of rela- tional violation leads to the equation of relationship and vio- lation. Another factor may be the perceived threat of sex. To protectors like "Me, Myself," all sex may be experienced as invasion and abuse. Another threat to the system which the host may pose in adolescence or adulthood is ofbreaking the silence about the abuse and/or the multiplicity. This threat is often raised to the level ofcrisis when the host enters treatment. We then wiU1ess the protector's desperate attempt to control the client, to "save her" from the expected dire consequences of reveal_ ing the secrets. While these perceived threats appear to us to be origi- nating from the external world the protector perceives them as caused by the host, as under the host's control. In the same way that the victim usually blames herselffor the abuse, so, too, the protector blames her. Therefore the protector's abusive behavior is directed at the host in an effort to con- trol her behavior. Finally, the host is often perceived as a threat for what he or she is not doing; for not protecting herself, for not get- ting out ofan abusive relationship, for not taking better care of her body, for not sticking up for herself, for not express- ing anger, and for a thousand other things which we well know are frequenuy difficult for survivors. What she is not doing is the fuel for the protector's charge U1at she or he is a hopeless "wimp." In conclusion, we agree with the common belief that persecutors start out as protectors; we disagree, however, with the idea that their basic identity changes and that they "become" persecutors. We think that in fact these supposed persecutors have not changed at all and that they are still protectors. What has changed is what needs to be protected against. In adolescence or adulthood the host him- or her- selfis perceived as the threatand the protector sh ifts its aggres- sive behavior toward the host in order to protect the system. In the next section we shall focus on treatment of persecu- tors and how we can help them carry out their underlying protective function more appropriately. TREATMENT OF PERSECUTORS There is a lot ofvaluable literature on the treaunent of DID, ESD, and other varieties of dissociative states (Beahrs, 1982; Bloch, 1991; Kluft, 1991; PUU1am, 1989; Ross & Gahn, 1988; Ross, 1989; and Watkins & Watkins 1992,1993). Most of this speaks directly to working with persecutor alters. In this section we shall augment U1at body of work and focus on specific techniques which we find useful. Watkins and Watkins, in their work with covert ego-states, have evolved a treatment model which is distinguished by "the use ojgroup and Jamil). therapeutic techniques Jor the resolu- tion ojconflicts between the various ego states that constitute a Jam- ily ojself' within a single individual" (1992, p. 29, italics origi- nal). We use this model extensively and in this section expand on their ideas. In our view, treatmen t of tl1e "family" with a persecutor can and must be divided into two broad stages. In the first stage the therapist creates an alliance with U1e "family" and helps all parties (tl1erapist, host, and alter) come to a more accurate assessment of the problem. In our experience tl1e "multiple family" with a persecutor alter is much like the 94 D1SS0CLHlO:\.1'01. \111. :\0. 2. Jon, 199; ·j. GOODMAN/PETERS ramil} \\ ho prCloClllSWil.h an acullg-SeclllCIlI rc\·icljlll;lalion: The case Oflh('"rapi~l - p:uit'n1 "f'xual ('xploitalioll. with a description ofl.hc sitting £lurk wndmnl('. In j.L I'. Kluft (Ed.). I"r~t-rdtlIM JJlldromn ofMull p!YrhnptJlholog)' (pp. 26:~~87 ). Washingtoll. 1)(;: American psychiatric Press Klnft. R.I'. (1991). Mullipk I'CI'ltOII;llit\ Oi~rdc..-. In A. G. Tasman. & S. Goldfillgcr, Rn,/nll of M"rillotry: l'aI,uM f() (pp. 161-188). Washington, DC: Amcric;t/l I'~'\chiau'ic I'n..'SS. Man:::usc.J.J. 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